Reframing: Overcoming Cognitive Distortions with Cognitive Reframing

Have you ever found yourself getting overly worked up or anxious about something... before it even happened? Built up a scenario in your mind of what an event will entail – without any real proof of how it will turn out? This is known as a cognitive distortion.

By identifying these distortions – essentially, tricks that our minds are playing on us – we can learn to isolate and overcome cognitive distortions using a tactic known as reframing.

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What are cognitive distortions?

Before we dive straight into reframing, let’s determine what, exactly, a cognitive distortion looks like. In simplest terms, cognitive distortions are irrational thought patterns.

Dr. Taylor Chesney, a psychologist in New York City who specializes in Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT) and is the director of the Feeling Good Institute, does a lot of work helping her clients identify and overcome their own personal cognitive distortions.

Dr. Chesney highlights a landmark description of cognitive distortions broken down by Dr. David Burns, in his book Feeling Good. These include:

“Most people think an upsetting event is what causes your stress or anxiety. Preparing for a talk? Stressful work meeting? Seems pretty straightforward that these anxiety-provoking situations cause your stress, right? Well, it's really not true. What we know is, that it's how you think about it that impacts how you feel!” says Dr. Chesney.

In other words, it’s not the presumably stressful event itself; it’s how we perceive and react to it. And if our automatic reaction is irrational, negative, and ultimately detrimental to our mental health? That, in a nutshell, is a cognitive distortion.

Wondering how to stop cognitive distortions? Enter reframing.

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What is reframing?

"Reframing" is the CBT technique for stopping cognitive distortions. It is the developed habit of consciously changing how you feel during detrimental moments of cognitive distortions.

“When we have intense, negative emotions – such as depression and anxiety – our thoughts are often overly negative. These negative thoughts can intensify and prolong feelings of depression and anxiety,” says Dr. Bradley Miller, an adult psychiatrist and neuroscientist in New York City who specializes in psychotherapy and medications for individuals with depression and anxiety.  Like a self-fulfilling prophecy of a downwards spiral, negativity can beget further negativity.

When you reframe the situation to cope and deal with it better, you’re allowing yourself to grow and expand your mindset.

Through cognitive reframing, we can learn to recognize our negative thought spirals and cultivate more realistic and positive thoughts.

How does cognitive reframing work?

The first step in cognitive reframing is identifying your own unique cognitive distortions. You then evaluate the evidence of said distortions, and – rather than embracing the negative thoughts – practice compassion towards yourself. Let’s break it down:

Practice noticing your cognitive distortions

Every time you’re experiencing a distortion, point it out to yourself. Dr. Chesney gives a common example: Feeling anxious before an exam.

Perhaps you predict you’re going to do poorly on the exam, so you focus on what materials you don’t know. You think everyone else will do better than you. And you start to fill your head with negative self-talk, like “I’m so stupid.”

When you notice yourself thinking something bleakly negative like that, stop the thought mid-flow by verbally saying “Stop!” out loud. Reassess your assumptions, and see if you can come up with a positive or neutral replacement.

Evaluate the evidence

Making a pros and cons list is a great exercise for all things in life, but try taking it a step further.

When a negative thought enters your mind, make a column of all the evidence that proves that notion, and a column of evidence that doesn’t.

You don’t have to believe the new positive thoughts right away, but seeing them written before you is a great first step.

Back to the example of the test: Have you studied hard? Reviewed the material in question? Be objective about your own dedication and hard work, rather than comparing yourself to others and assuming you’re the least prepared.  

Practice compassion

Speaking kindly to yourself seems simple, but making a genuine effort each day to build yourself up and provide your heart and mind with internal love and support is a wonderful habit to make.

When getting ready for that test, tell yourself: “I’m smart, I’ve worked hard, I’ve studied the material I need to.” Your anxiety levels should start to go down.

“Over time, you develop more realistic and helpful thoughts, and these thoughts help to improve your mood,” says Dr. Miller.  

What are the goals of cognitive reframing?

Cognitive reframing has short term and long term goals. In the short term, focusing on daily and balanced and positive thoughts is an incredible way to move your mindset from the negative and ultimately improve the way you think.

In the long term, Dr. Miller suggests repeated practice is the best way to shift your overall mood. “Cognitive reframing can lead to a long term shift in your thinking, and more balanced and positive thinking becomes automatic,” he said.

Regardless of where you are at in your cognitive reframing journey, be gentle with your thoughts. Be mindful that the negative ideas you are having can be reversed – and when possible, practice compassion with yourself.

Not sure how to implement reframing techniques into your everyday life? Working with a therapist who uses CBT in their approach can help you 1) identify negative thought patterns as they arise, 2) learn strategies and techniques to replace them, and 3) eventually empower yourself to overcome negative thinking.